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You could elect to become more active in your community by joining a civic group or running for elective office. You could decide to turn a hobby into a business. Think about and write down the goals and measurable objectives you want to accomplish, and by when. You have just recreated a sense of purpose for your life. Think next about who you are going to do this with. If you join an existing organization or cause, the people often come along with that decision. But if you are starting something new, you may have to bring in the people to work with you. When will you see them? How often? What will you be doing with them? You are recreating your sense of community. Finally, think about how you are going to organize your life to accomplish your new purpose. Will you do it at home, at an office, outside? How many hours will you give to it each week? Which hours will they be? You are putting structure back in your life. Gradually, you will see your life come back into focus. 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